The Twelve Days of Christmas

 

The Season That Begins After Christmas Day

Every year, the familiar tune of “The Twelve Days of Christmas” starts floating through the air sometime in early December. We hum along, we laugh at the escalating chaos of gifts, and we assume — quite naturally — that the song is counting down to Christmas. But here’s the twist: the Twelve Days of Christmas don’t lead up to Christmas at all. They begin on Christmas Day itself.

It’s one of those delightful bits of holiday tradition that has quietly slipped out of modern awareness, especially here in the U.S., where the tree often comes down before the New Year. But historically? Christmas was just getting started.

Where the Twelve Days Come From

The Twelve Days of Christmas — also known as Christmastide — stretch from December 25 through January 5, ending on the evening known as Twelfth Night. The next morning, January 6, is Epiphany, the day the Magi are said to have reached Bethlehem.

Some traditions count the days slightly differently, beginning on December 26 and ending on January 6, but the heart of the idea is the same:
Christmas is a season, not a single day.

This period was once filled with feast days, celebrations, and a welcome break from work. Medieval Europeans spent these days visiting, feasting, and enjoying a rare stretch of winter merriment after the long fast of Advent.

So What About the Song?

The carol “The Twelve Days of Christmas” is directly tied to this festive stretch of time. It wasn’t written as a countdown to December 25 — it was a memory game sung during the Twelve Days themselves. Each verse added a new gift, and if you forgot one, you owed a playful “forfeit,” like a kiss or a treat.

The gifts themselves don’t correspond to specific feast days, but the structure of the song mirrors the joyful, cumulative nature of the season.

Why the Tradition Still Matters

Even though modern life tends to pack up Christmas quickly, the older rhythm has a certain charm — especially here in New England, where winter invites us to slow down whether we planned to or not.

Honoring the Twelve Days can mean:

  • Keeping the tree up until January 6
  • Enjoying a quieter, more reflective stretch after the holiday rush
  • Letting the season unfold gently instead of ending abruptly
  • Savoring the coziness of home during the darkest days of winter

It’s a reminder that not everything needs to be rushed. Some seasons are meant to linger.

A Season Worth Savoring

So the next time you hear “On the first day of Christmas…”, you’ll know. The song isn’t counting down to Christmas — it’s celebrating the days that follow it. The days when the world slows down, the lights glow a little softer, and winter invites us to rest.

Here’s to Christmastide! It’s that quiet, magical stretch that carries us from Christmas Day to Epiphany, one cozy winter moment at a time.

 

The Three Wise Men: Gifts, Pageants, and a Dash of Mystery

A Familiar Christmas Scene

Every December, children don cardboard crowns, drape themselves in shiny robes, and march across church stages or school auditoriums as the Three Wise Men. Sometimes they’re solemn, sometimes they’re giggling, but they always carry their “gifts” with great importance. Gold is easy—wrap a box in shiny paper and you’re set. But frankincense and myrrh? Those usually get improvised with spice jars or perfume bottles.

 

Who Were These Travelers?

The story tells of three magi who followed a star to Bethlehem, bringing treasures for the newborn child. They’ve been painted as kings, scholars, or astrologers depending on the tradition, but what makes them memorable is their journey. Imagine trekking across deserts with camels, guided only by a star, and arriving with gifts that still spark curiosity today.

Gold: The Obvious One

We all know gold. It’s the universal symbol of wealth and value, and even in a children’s pageant, it’s the easiest to explain. A shiny coin or a golden box says it all.

Frankincense: The Fragrant Gift

Frankincense is a resin from the Boswellia tree, prized in ancient times for its sweet, woody aroma. It was burned in temples and homes, filling the air with a sense of ceremony. Today, you might find it in essential oils or incense sticks. In a pageant, frankincense might be represented by a little jar of potpourri, but in reality, it was a luxury item—something that said, “This gift is fit for royalty.”

Myrrh: The Mysterious One

Myrrh, another resin, came from the Commiphora tree. It had a bittersweet scent and was used in perfumes, medicine, and even embalming. That makes it a curious gift for a baby, but it carried deep meaning in the ancient world. In modern terms, think of it as a rare essential oil with a touch of mystery.

Why We Still Love the Story

The Three Wise Men remind us that Christmas isn’t just about tinsel and toys—it’s about journeys, wonder, and gifts that carry meaning. Whether you’re watching children parade across a stage or lighting a candle scented with frankincense, their story adds a touch of magic to the season.

 

🎄 December Arrives: Let the Festivities Begin!

 

Christmas House 2014 photo credit Deb Neumann

The Countdown Is On

My Little Helper 2013 Photo credit Deb Neumann

December has a way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? One moment we’re crunching leaves underfoot, and the next we’re surrounded by twinkling lights, peppermint mochas, and the unmistakable hum of holiday music. December 1 marks the official start of the Christmas countdown, and whether you’re a planner with gifts already wrapped or a last-minute shopper, this month is all about embracing the joyful chaos.

Santa Rocky 2013 Photo Credit Deb Neumann

The Magic of Christmas Craziness

There’s something wonderfully wild about December. The calendar fills with parties, parades, and family traditions. Stores bustle with shoppers hunting for the perfect present, while kitchens everywhere come alive with the scent of cookies and pies. It’s hectic, yes—but it’s also magical. The “Christmas craziness” is part of the charm: the laughter, the late-night wrapping sessions, and the spontaneous snowball fights that remind us to slow down and savor the season.

Finding Joy in the Hustle

Instead of letting the rush overwhelm us, December invites us to lean into the energy. Light a candle, put on your favorite carols, and let the spirit of the season guide you. Even the smallest traditions—like hanging stockings or sipping hot cocoa—can ground us in joy. This month isn’t just about crossing items off a list; it’s about creating memories that will warm us long after the snow melts.

Buddy 2013 photo credit Deb Neumann

Kick Off with a Bang

So here’s to December 1: the day we fling open the doors to the season of sparkle. Let’s welcome the month with enthusiasm, laughter, and maybe even a little mischief. Whether you’re decking the halls, planning a cozy movie night, or simply soaking in the glow of holiday lights, December is here to remind us that life is meant to be celebrated.

Ready or not, Christmas is coming—so let’s make these last days of the year unforgettable!

 

 

The Great Holiday Mix-Up

 

🎄🎃 The Great Holiday Mix-Up: Why Is Santa Side-Eyeing My Skeleton?

Deck the Halls… with Cobwebs?

It’s mid-October. The leaves are crisp, the pumpkins are plump, and your neighbor’s yard is a haunted masterpiece. You stroll into your local store for a bag of candy corn and—bam!—you’re greeted by a life-sized animatronic Santa doing the cha-cha next to a fog machine. Somewhere, a confused elf is tangled in fake spiderwebs wondering what went wrong.

Retail Time Travel: Now Featuring Peppermint in October

Retailers seem to operate in a parallel universe where time is a suggestion. Halloween? That was so August. Thanksgiving? Blink and you’ll miss it. Christmas? Oh honey, it’s been here since Labor Day. The moment the back-to-school aisle clears, it’s full throttle into tinsel territory. You came for a witch hat, but left with a snow globe and existential confusion.

Pumpkins with a Side of Peppermint Bark

There’s something deeply unsettling about sipping a pumpkin spice latte while browsing Christmas tree ornaments. It’s like your taste buds are caught in a custody battle between cinnamon and peppermint. One aisle screams “BOO!” while the next whispers “Ho ho ho.” It’s festive whiplash, and we’re all just trying to survive the sleigh ride.

The Real Reason? Retail Shenanigans

Let’s be honest: retailers know we’re suckers for sparkle. They’re banking on our inability to resist a glittery reindeer, even if it’s still 70 degrees and we’re wearing flip-flops. It’s not about logic—it’s about impulse buys and premature nostalgia. And maybe, just maybe, a little joy in the chaos.

 


So next time you see Santa lurking behind a zombie, take a deep breath and embrace the madness. After all, nothing says “holiday spirit” like a skeleton wearing a Santa hat and holding a candy cane.

 

 

Santa is Late this year

Santa is Late

I don’t spend a lot of time or effort on Christmas. After all. it’s just me and the furry “kids” –  2 cats this year. I am limiting my crazy cat lady tendencies.  I always feel that the cats don’t know it’s Christmas so if I don’t feel like decorating the only one who misses out is me. This year I was perplexed. I have a pre-lit tree that I usually put in the corner but all my corners are taken up with cat trees.

 

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Christmas Past

I thought about stringing lights on one of the cat trees but figured that was a disaster waiting to happen. Just when I’d about given up I saw a reel on FB for one of my favorite cats. Kurt’s owner had gotten him a Christmas tree scratching  post! It was adorable!

The Christmas Cat Tree

The Christmas Cat Tree Scratching post comes in 2 sizes. The small one is 3 feet high. I figured I could put it in front of the fireplace where the cat’s toy box is so I looked up the web site to order one. $349.00! Nope not going to spend that no matter how cute. 

Christmas Future

 

I was disappointed but I’ll get over it

There is a Cheap One

Well needless to say the Elves at the North Pole got busy and I found a link to the 365Outlet which was discounted overstock items and they had the scratching posts for. get this- $48.00! I am willing to take a chance on a $48.00 knock off so I placed my order. 2 Weeks ’til Christmas. It’s going to be close. 

SHIPPED!

On December 13 I got an email saying my order had shipped and a tracking code so I could track my package. So now I wait. Knowing it so close to Christmas I didn’t jump right in to check the tracking code. I waited until December 21. That’s when I found out that the tree was coming from China! LOL. It wasn’t just made in China is is being shipped from there too. 

I’m guessing its on the proverbial “Slow Boat”! It has left the shipper and the tracking line moves a little bit every day. Maybe we’ll have it in time for next year.  I think this is an example of you get what you pay for.

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Christmas Present

 

At least the cats don’t know they are missing anything. They were content with new cat nip toys and some balls and of course a paper bag and new empty box.

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Christmas Present