The Art of Staying Comfortable: Hosting, Traveling, and Everything In Between

 

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Have Camera, Will Travel… and Yes, Sometimes My Bed Comes Too

I’ve learned something over the years: comfort isn’t a luxury, it’s survival. Whether I’m hosting family in my little condo, sneaking away for a weekend, or just trying to get a decent night’s sleep, I’ve become a connoisseur of the small things that make life easier. A good air mattress, soft bedding, and a camera bag that doesn’t dig into my shoulder — these are the unsung heroes of my everyday adventures.


Hosting in a One-Bedroom Condo: My Secret Weapons

People assume hosting is impossible in a small space. Not true. You just need strategy… and maybe a sense of humor.

My living room has seen everything from overnight guests to impromptu “Sure, you can crash here” situations. The real MVP? A reliable air mattress that doesn’t leave anyone on the floor by morning. I’ve had my share of deflating disasters over the years, but the King Koil air mattress has been the one that actually behaves. It inflates quickly, stays firm, and doesn’t squeak every time someone rolls over.
Air Mattress

I also keep a dedicated “guest bedding bundle” tucked in my closet — nothing fancy, just soft sheets and a cozy blanket that make people feel welcome. It saves me from the last‑minute scramble of digging through linen closets like a raccoon in a dumpster.

Bedding and linens

Hosting in a small space isn’t about square footage. It’s about making people feel comfortable… even if they’re sleeping next to your cat’s favorite scratching post.

 


Traveling Smarter, Not Harder

There was a time when I could toss everything into a tote bag and call it a day. Those days are gone. Now I pack with intention — and a little self-preservation.

If I’m heading out for a weekend getaway, the first thing I grab is my camera bag. I used to throw my camera into my purse and hope for the best. That usually ended with me fishing it out from under a pile of receipts and cough drops. A padded, organized camera bag has saved my shoulders and my sanity.
Camera Gear

 

And depending on where I’m staying, I’ve been known to bring my own pillow or throw blanket. I’m at the age where one bad night of sleep can derail an entire trip. Comfort is non-negotiable.

I’ve even brought my own air mattress to questionable Airbnbs. When the listing says “extra sleeping space,” I’ve learned that can mean anything from a futon to a yoga mat. I prefer to be prepared.


How My Sleeping Setups Have Evolved

If I could go back and talk to my younger self, I’d say, “Sweetheart, invest in good bedding. Your spine will thank you.”

I’ve slept on everything — couches, cots, RV bunks, and one particularly memorable air mattress that slowly deflated until I woke up shaped like a taco. These days, I choose comfort on purpose. Soft sheets, supportive pillows, and a mattress (or air mattress) that doesn’t betray me in the night.

It’s funny how aging shifts your priorities. I used to chase adventure. Now I chase a good night’s sleep… and honestly, that feels like its own kind of adventure.


Comfort Is the New Adventure

Life gets busy, unpredictable, and occasionally chaotic, and I’ve realized that comfort isn’t frivolous. It’s grounding and it’s stabilizing. It’s the thing that lets you breathe a little easier when everything else feels like a juggling act.

So whether I’m hosting guests, packing for a weekend, or just settling in for the night, I’m choosing comfort wherever I can find it. And if a few well-chosen tools make life smoother, I’m all for it.


Your Turn

What’s the one comfort item you refuse to travel or host without — a favorite pillow, a cozy blanket, or something completely unexpected?

Tell me — I love hearing what makes your world a little softer.


 

 

Finally a Travel Day

It’s a Travel Day!

 

My long-postponed vacation to Colorado is finally off the ground- literally. I spent last week finalizing the care for my kitties for my “great escape”.  I wouldn’t be honest with you if I said I was looking forward to this trip because I’m not. The time at home has made me quite a couch potato. My travel urge is pretty low. I’ve gotten used to hanging at home with the cats. But this vacation has been planned since COVID in 2020 shut down the world. It’s paid for so I really can’t justify backing out now. 

My Travel Starts at 3 AM

Part of the reason I am less than thrilled about the travel is the hassle just getting to the airport has become. I used to fly out of TF Green in RI but somewhere along the line they got more expensive than Logan Airport in Boston.  The recommended arrival time for domestic flights is 2 hours before boarding. My flight leaves at 7 am which means arriving at 5 am. So, I bundle myself and my bags into my car for the 45-minute drive to the Logan Express bus in Braintree. It’s $7.00 a day for parking there. Much cheaper than the parking at Logan but I need to allow time for the bus trip from Braintree to Logan so another (recommended) hour there. Not much sleep to start my travel day.

TSA Pre Check

I still have my TSA pre check status so getting through security is slightly less of an issue than for those that have to go through the regular security. It still doesn’t keep me from being pulled out for a pat down. My artificial hip lights up my whole left side so even though I warn the TSA agents what to expect they still have to clear me. At least the woman I had this time was friendly and even showed me what the screen showed her. All I can say is I am quite colorful!

Delta

I’m flying on Delta and although I didn’t spring for first class, it’s only a 4-hour flight, I did get a non-stop to Denver and opted for their new Comfort Plus cabin. I really lucked out too as I was the only one in that row! The plane was brand new, just put in service in June. It had huge roomy overhead bins so plenty of room for carry-on bags. The seats are larger and lots of leg room. At least on this plane I can say the Comfort + was worth every penny!

I remember one of my last trips on Delta when we had a crazy, rude flight attendant. She was verbally abusive to a couple that just wanted to change seats to sit together and at one point threw the cabin phone against the plane wall. It was the only time I ever filed a complaint. This time it was completely different. The crew were all super nice and friendly.  In any case they worked hard to accommodate seat changes for a family traveling with a tiny infant and it was all done without any drama, and everyone was happy. Quite the change! 

If there was one negative, I’d have to say that its they made the bathroom even smaller. Hard to believe that is even possible but I barely had room to turn around in it! 

On Time Arrival

We took off on time and arrived about 20 minutes early in Denver. By the time I made my way to baggage claim our luggage was circling the carousel. All I needed now was my rental car and a map and by Mountain time it was only 10 am! How perfect was that!?