When the Job Ends, Life Goes On

 

Fog-shrouded railroad trestle in Alaska's Yukon region, with a white sign reading "GULCH" in the foreground and the bridge fading into dense mist.

Laid Off and Lost in the Fog. When the path ahead disappears, the next step is all you need to see.

There Is Life After Layoffs

Reading about the changes taking place at Comcast this week brought back memories I hadn’t visited in a long time.

In 2013, after ten years with Comcast, my department was reorganized and I found myself facing a decision. Relocate or leave.

I chose to leave.

At the time, I was 62 years old. I had a mortgage, responsibilities, and plenty of people who believed nobody would hire someone my age. My plan was simple. Take the severance, collect unemployment, enjoy the summer, and figure out what came next.

Life had other ideas.

An Unexpected Opportunity

Person standing on a rocky shoreline beside a glacier-fed lake with floating ice chunks. Snow-covered mountains and a large glacier fill the background, while calm gray-blue water extends across the scene. The person is wearing a dark jacket and jeans and is positioned near the water's edge.While on vacation in Alaska, I received a job offer. That opportunity became another ten-year career with a company that was growing and full of possibilities. I never got that summer off.

Then ten years later, history repeated itself. My position was eliminated during another corporate restructuring, and suddenly I found myself standing at another unexpected crossroads.

Having lived through both experiences, I can tell you that layoffs are never easy.

There is fear and uncertainty. There is often a sense of loss that is hard to explain to anyone who hasn’t experienced it. A job is more than a paycheck. It’s routine, friendships, purpose, and identity.

But there is something else.

There is opportunity.

There Is Life After Layoffs

Sometimes the door that closes is one you would have stayed behind forever simply because it felt safe. Sometimes being forced to choose opens possibilities you never would have considered.

If you’re one of the people affected by the changes at Comcast or any other company, take a breath. Give yourself time. Take stock of what you’ve accomplished and what you still want to do.

A layoff doesn’t define your value.

I know because I’ve lived through it twice.Snow-covered mountain peaks rise in layers beneath a clear blue sky, with a dark line of evergreen trees stretching across the foreground. Haze partially obscures the distant mountain, creating a soft, atmospheric effect and emphasizing the depth of the landscape.

Today I’m retired, writing, creating, photographing wildlife, building new projects, and enjoying a life I never could have imagined when I walked out of Comcast all those years ago.

The road ahead may look uncertain right now, but don’t underestimate your ability to adapt and reinvent yourself.

I won’t tell you layoffs are a blessing. They aren’t. They can bring fear, uncertainty, and real financial hardship. But I will tell you that a layoff doesn’t have to be the end of your story.
Some of the things I enjoy most today were born from those difficult years. Writing. Photography. Building Sights & Scenes. Creating WMEO stories. None of those were part of the plan when I walked out of Comcast

There is life after layoffs.

I promise.


 

Happy Anniversary to me

Happy Anniversary

Today is the 1 year anniversary of the day that turned my life upside down. Yup I was laid off from Redfin 1 year ago today. It’s not as if I’d never been laid off before but I’d never been laid off when I was 70+ years old. I just didn’t have it in me to start over again. so I’m trying out retirement. Evan after  a year I’m not sure it suits me. I still wake up in the morning feeling guilty because I’m not rushing around to get ready for work.  I worry about paying the bills.  Social Security doesn’t go that far and my Redfin investments are still in the tank.  I got a nice severance package and I’ve been using that to make up any shortfalls but it can’t go on forever.

 

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Typical Day since Layoff

I’m trying to live the frugal life since the layoff. No spontaneous shopping trips. Minimal take out or restaurant meals. I stopped taking road trips to save on gas.  One  big thing I did was restrict my time ordering kindle books. Since I like series I made it a rule that I had to re-read all the books in a series before I could add a new one.  I’m working on the Stephanie Plumb series now. I’m currently on book 12 but the new book is #30 so I have a way to go. 

I also dropped cable and just have streaming now. That saved me $100/ mo. I’m debating if I want to downgrade the streaming service. I have “Live TV” but the price just went up and I only watch a couple of channels. If I’m patient eventually the new programing will be added to my streaming service.

 

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Entertainment

My cats are a constant source of entertainment.  Just last night Banner was trying to stuff his fluffy body into a paper grocery bag, The whole side ripped out. Balboa was quite interested in watching this and when Banner got out of the remains of the bag Balboa was there to try to get in.  Banner immediately lifted his paw and bopped Balboa on the head- no claws, no rough housing just  “BOP!” It was such a surprise and so deliberate. It just cracked me up. Surprised Balboa too. 

 

 

Banner Photo credit Deb Neumann

 

 

Balboa photo credit Deb Neumann

Conclusion

If I could just shake the feeling that I should be working I think I’d like retirement.  I don’t mind relaxing and reading or playing on the computer. I’m not bored yet. I guess as long as the money holds out I’ll keep up the routine. I wish I could think of something to do on my own time to make money. A side hustle so to speak.  If I get bored or get itchy feet and want to travel again I can look for a part time job to support my habit. 

 

 

 

 

 

The Final Countdown Begins

My last day at work is Saturday. By Saturday night the office will be closed . Relocated to another location north of Boston. I won’t be going. The extra cost of the commute, time involved and wear and tear on my old car put it out of reach. I’m sure something will come along and if I can find a local position I’ll save $200/mo. just on gas.

But through Saturday I am working 10 hours days so I am not sure how much time I will have to post anything interesting. If time allows I may repost some of my popular posts from the past. The equivalent of a TV rerun. 🙂 But I promise I will be back and posting on a regular schedule soon.

My blog has become a part of me and I would not be able to leave it behind but I also want to be sure that the content stays interesting and I don’t think I will be able to do that over the next couple of days. So if I am not here for a couple of days, fear not…I will catch you on the flip side.