Yes , There is a Father Road

 

The Father Road: America’s First Coast‑to‑Coast Highway

After writing about Route 66 — the famous Mother Road — in honor of its 100th anniversary, I stumbled onto something I’d never heard of before: the Father Road. And once I learned what it was, I knew it deserved its own post. Before Route 66 ever rolled across the American Southwest, there was another road that connected the country from coast to coast and changed the way Americans traveled. Meet the Lincoln Highway, the original transcontinental highway and the true “Father Road” of America.

Most people have never heard of it, but without the Father Road, there would be no Mother Road at all.


Before Route 66, There Was the Lincoln Highway

The Lincoln Highway was established in 1913, making it the very first road to stretch all the way across the United States. It ran from Times Square in New York City to Lincoln Park in San Francisco, covering roughly 3,400 miles.

At a time when most roads were still dirt or gravel, the idea of driving from coast to coast sounded like something out of a dream. But the Lincoln Highway made it possible. It gave Americans their first taste of long‑distance automobile travel and stitched the country together in a brand‑new way.

If Route 66 is the Mother Road, the Lincoln Highway is absolutely the Father Road — older, steadier, and the one who paved the way (literally) for everything that followed.

The beginning of the Father Road, aka Lincoln Highway , in Times Square


A Road Built on Ambition and Optimism

Unlike modern highways, the Lincoln Highway wasn’t created by the government. It was the brainchild of early automobile pioneers who believed the future belonged to the car. They wanted a single, continuous route that would encourage Americans to explore their own country.

Towns along the proposed route fought to be included. Being on the Lincoln Highway meant travelers, tourists, and money — a lifeline for small communities.

The road passed through:

  • New York
  • New Jersey
  • Pennsylvania
  • Ohio
  • Indiana
  • Illinois
  • Iowa
  • Nebraska
  • Wyoming
  • Utah
  • Nevada
  • California

It was a true coast‑to‑coast adventure.


📍 Map of the Lincoln Highway


Lincoln Highway to Donner Pass

What the Father Road Left Behind

Much of the original Lincoln Highway eventually became U.S. Route 30, though pieces of the old road still exist — sometimes marked, sometimes forgotten, sometimes hiding in plain sight.

Its legacy is enormous:

  • It inspired the idea of national highways
  • It encouraged tourism and cross‑country travel
  • It helped shape the American love affair with the open road

Without the Father Road, there would be no Mother Road

 


Why the Father Road Belongs Beside Route 66

Route 66 gets the neon lights, the diners, the postcards, and the nostalgia.
The Lincoln Highway gets the origin story — the first bold attempt to connect America by car.

If Route 66 is the road we remember, the Lincoln Highway is the road that made everything possible.

And now that I know about it, I think it deserves its own moment in the spotlight.

Lincoln Highway – brick section – Nebraska


 

World Ocean Day: The Night I Met the Mantas

 


🌊A Morning Prompt That Sparked a MemoryManta Ray Adventure. Snorkle with the giants in Hawaii

A little morning card on my screen recently told me to “Celebrate World Oceanic Day.” Not a real holiday, not even close to June, but it nudged loose one of my favorite memories from the Big Island — the night I went snorkeling with manta rays. And if there’s ever a story worthy of World Ocean Day, it’s this one.

Waiting Out the Rain

It had started to rain while we waited to head out, the kind of soft Hawaiian drizzle that feels more like a suggestion than weather. One of the other snorkelers asked the dive master if we’d still be going out “if it rained.” I remember blinking at her. We were about to jump into the Pacific Ocean — getting wet was sort of the point.

Dusk on the Big Island

The boat drifted near shore as dusk settled in. We could see the lights from the Marriott stretching across the water, long gold streaks shimmering toward us as the sky deepened from blue to indigo. The air was warm, the kind of tropical warmth that wraps around you like a shawl. The crew moved with practiced ease, lowering a huge square frame of lights into the water. The glow sank beneath the surface like a stage being lit from below. The lights attract the plankton, and the plankton attract the mantas — a whole food chain choreographed for our front‑row seats.

Into the Water

With the light frame in place, we splashed in — one by one — each snorkeler taking hold of the frame and settling into an easy dead man’s float. The ocean was warm against my skin, and I listened to the subtle lapping of the waves as I drifted, face down, breathing slow and steady through my snorkel. The night felt soft as velvet, the kind of darkness that holds you rather than hides you.

When the Mantas Appeared

And then… there they were.

They came in silently, emerging from the darkness like ghosts with wings. Enormous, graceful, otherworldly. They moved with a kind of slow, deliberate elegance, sweeping in wide arcs beneath us. They were huge — impossibly huge — and apparently just as curious about us as we were about them. I had to remind myself to breathe. It felt like watching an underwater ballet, choreographed by creatures who had been dancing long before humans ever arrived on the islands.

A Moment I’ll Never Forget

Then came the moment we were all hoping for. One of those beautiful creatures rose from below and swam right up the length of my body, its wings brushing the water inches from my skin. As it reached my collarbone, it rolled into a perfect backflip, white belly glowing in the light, before drifting away again into the dark. For a heartbeat, it felt like we were sharing the same pulse.

A Glimpse of the Magic

Since I didn’t have an underwater camera, here’s a video that captures the magic better than I ever could.

Why World Ocean Day Matters

If you’ve never floated in the dark while a manta ray the size of a dining room table glides past your face, trust me — the ocean has a way of making you feel small in the best possible way.

If You Ever Find Yourself on the Big Island

If you ever find yourself on the Big Island of Hawaii, take the plunge. The manta experience is one you’ll remember for a lifetime.


 

Bridge of Flowers Opens for the Season

The Bridge of Flowers in Shelburne, MA is open for the season. This one‑of‑a‑kind flower‑covered trolley bridge is cared for by skilled gardeners and volunteers, making it the perfect spot for a quiet, restorative stop. Enjoy the blooms — and take care of the environment while you’re there.

The Bridge of Flowers announces it's annual spring opening

The Bridge of Flowers began as a simple trolley bridge, reborn as a public garden in 1929.  The Bridge of Flowers Committee lovingly cares for the floral displays  season after season for everyone to enjoy. Open from May to October.

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When the Map Stops Changing: Saying Goodbye to Thunderbunny Labs’ Travel Maps

This is the map that caught my eye and strated my 50 state challenge btu now it's time to say goodbye

A sample of a Thunderbunnylab USA Travel Map

Seeing Change More Clearly

Everything changes. I know that’s not exactly breaking news, but the shifts feel sharper as I get older. When I was young, I was too busy moving forward to notice how nothing stays the same. Now I see the changes more clearly — and I don’t always love them. Call it being set in my ways, but a recent email from Thunderbunny Labs stirred up a mix of nostalgia, regret, and reflection.

My Thunderbunny Map Story

Thunderbunny Labs is the company behind my beloved travel map — not a road map, but a framed blank map you fill with your own photos as you explore the country. I bought my USA map in 2021, and you can practically hear my excitement in my original post from May 17, 2021.

My only regret is that I didn’t get farther with it.

 

How the Maps Worked

Print and Cut

There were two ways to fill the map:

  • The DIY way: scissors, glue, and a lot of patience.
  • The Thunderbunny way: upload your photos to their website and order perfectly sized, state‑shaped stickers printed on sticky paper. I picked mine up at my local Walgreens — clean, easy, and oddly satisfying.

But 2021 was right before COVID, and between the lockdowns and then retiring, I haven’t traveled much since. My map is still only about halfway filled.

The Announcement I Didn’t Want

Just getting started

And now Thunderbunny is discontinuing their travel maps.

They wrote:

“After much consideration, we are permanently discontinuing production of our photo maps on May 15th, 2026… If you or someone you know wishes to purchase a USA Photo Map, please do so by May 15th.”

Honestly, it makes sense. The pandemic froze travel. Even now, I’m not convinced it has fully bounced back. Every day there’s another story about flight delays, diversions, rising costs, or fuel prices impacted by the war. RV travel isn’t much better with gas prices climbing. And then there were the government funding battles that left TSA agents unpaid or calling out sick. Long lines, long waits — travel just isn’t the carefree adventure it once was.

A Bit of Good News

Thunderbunny isn’t abandoning those of us who already have maps. They reassured us:

“Please know that while map production is coming to a close, our commitment to our existing customers remains as strong as ever. We will maintain our website and photo printing services indefinitely so you can continue to update your existing photo maps as your own adventures unfold.”

I hope they can keep that going. My local Walgreens closed, so I’d have to find another one if I ever get back on the road.

 

A Farewell Worth Reading

I love how Thunderbunny wrapped up their email — it felt like a curtain call and a thank‑you note all at once:

“What started as a fun way to document our travels ended up taking us on a much different adventure… We grew from a weekend craft project, to a hobbyist Etsy store, to a full‑time business employing dozens of wonderful people… More recently, it has spawned a thriving custom printing business which will be the next destination on our journey.”

Looking Ahead (and Back)

I hope I can add a few more states to my map and keep my connection with Thunderbunny Labs going. That map has been a joyful visual record of my travels. But change is inevitable, isn’t it. I suppose I’d better get used to it.