Finding Silver Linings in Strange Places

Sunset over Cadillac Mountain in Maine, with warm orange light spreading across layered hills and a forested foreground beneath a glowing sky.

When Life Hands You a Plot Twist

Sometimes life hands you a plot twist you never asked for. Not the kind you get when your plane is delayed and you’re stuck at the airport with a $12 sandwich and a dying phone battery. I mean the kind that knocks you sideways, steals your plans, and leaves you staring at a ceiling wondering what comes next.

And yet, every so often, those detours end up pointing us somewhere unexpectedly beautiful. You may have to dig a little to find the silver lining — sometimes with a shovel — but I really do believe it’s there if you look.

Little Richard Starkey and the Sanatorium Drum

I learned today that in 1953 Ringo Starr — yes, that Ringo Starr, the famous drummer for the Beatles — spent two years in a sanatorium after developing tuberculosis. Back then he was just little Richard Starkey, a kid from Liverpool whose world had suddenly shrunk to the size of a hospital ward. The staff tried to keep the children from sinking into boredom and loneliness, so they handed out simple percussion instruments. A triangle here, a drum there.

And that’s where Ringo first fell in love with drumming. A sick child, stuck in a hospital, discovers the thing that will carry him through the rest of his life. The thing that will make him famous. The thing that will make millions of people smile.

Stephen Hawking and the Two‑Year Diagnosis That Lasted 50 Years

It reminded me of another story — Stephen Hawking. Diagnosed with ALS at 21 and told he had two years to live. Instead, he lived more than five decades. His illness didn’t make him brilliant, but it forced him to think differently, to work differently, to focus on the kind of deep theoretical questions that don’t require a lab — just a mind sharp enough to wander the universe. And wander it he did.

Harrison Ford: Rejection, Carpentry, and a Chance Encounter

And then there’s Harrison Ford. Today he’s Indiana Jones, Han Solo, and a real-life hero who once flew a helicopter into Yellowstone to help rescue a missing boy. But before all that, he was told by a studio executive that he had no talent and would never make it in Hollywood. The exec even said, “When Tony Curtis walked into this office, I knew he was a star.” Ford’s reply? “I thought he was supposed to be a waiter.” Dry, sharp, and pure Harrison Ford.

He took the rejection, became a carpenter to support his family, and that detour put him in the right place at the right time. His carpentry work led him to George Lucas, who hired him to build cabinets… and then cast him in American Graffiti, and later Star Wars. The door slammed shut, and he climbed in through the workshop window.

The Quiet Truth Behind These Stories

All three stories hum with the same quiet truth: Bad things don’t magically become good. But humans are astonishingly good at finding light in dark places.

My Own Chapters and Silver Linings

And when I look at my own life, I see it as a series of chapters. When one ends, something else always seems to come along. Different decisions would have led to different results — who knows where I’d be today if I’d finished college and gotten my degree, or if I’d changed direction earlier and started writing sooner?

But my life today is good. It’s full. Everyday is an adventure, And as Elton John sings, I’m still standing — and as long as I am, there’s time for silver linings.

Deb’s Ready to Dive

 

I Sound Like My Grandparents… and I’m Okay With It

Whimsical drawing of an elderly couple surrounded by decorative leaves, perfect for a blog post about old‑fashioned sayings and grandparent phrases.

Your Grandparents Said What?

Oh no. According to an article I read, I apparently sound like my grandparents. I found this little gem on Bing — I love checking out their shorts. They’re perfect bite‑sized sparks when I’m stuck for ideas, and honestly, even when I’m not stuck, they serve up all kinds of interesting things.

So today I was reading 17 phrases your grandparents said that nobody says anymore… except I use a lot of them. As I put this list together, I had to laugh — I still use so many of these. My grandparents would be proud… or concerned. But don’t worry, we’re not going through all 17. I’ll just touch on the ones I still use today.

“Happy as a clam.”

Are you enjoying life? Are you content? I can tell you that Banner, curled up in his sink, is happy as a clam. Living in Massachusetts, where clamming is practically a sport, it’s no surprise this expression stuck around — dated or not.

“Close the door — were you born in a barn?”

Ouch. I don’t use this one myself (no kids to yell at), but I can still hear my mother shouting it, and wow did it sting. None of that “sticks and stones” stuff for me — words absolutely can hurt.

“Keep your shirt on.”

Did you know this probably goes back to the early 1900s, when men would take off their shirts before a fight? Apparently they were more afraid of coming home with a torn shirt and facing their wife than they were of getting a bloody nose.

“I’ll be there with bells on.”

I use this one all the time. If someone invites me over, I might very well say it without thinking. Turns out it comes from the bells used to decorate a horse’s bridle or sleigh. Who knew? But I still say it today.

There are so many more. Don’t take any wooden nickels. Go pound sand. You got your ears lowered. I’ll be a monkey’s uncle. The list goes on, but we’re out of time. And honestly, I don’t like to think I’m outdated. After all, I still use wicked to be cool.

How about you — do any of your grandparents’ sayings still sneak into your vocabulary? Drop yours in the comments — I’d love to see which ones you grew up with.

 

From Wine and Cheese to Cowboys

A charcuterie board arranged with assorted cheeses, sliced cured meats, green grapes, blueberries, pomegranate halves, crackers, green olives in a small bowl, and a creamy white dip. Behind the board are four bottles of red wine, creating an elegant wine‑and‑cheese presentation.

Today’s a great day. Everything from Wine and Cheese to Cowboys

Today is a very special day. If you like food, ice cream, and the Wild West… July 25 gives us a triple‑header: National Wine and Cheese Day, National Hot Fudge Sundae Day, and National Day of the Cowboy. How good is that!

Here are a few ideas to make the most of it:

  1. Host a wine and cheese party. Brie from the Brie region pairs beautifully with Beaujolais — a red wine that complements the creamy texture of the cheese like they were born to be together.
  2. Finish your party with a hot fudge sundae station. Set out vanilla bean ice cream, homemade or artisanal hot fudge, whipped cream, crushed waffle cones, toasted peanuts or pecans, and plenty of cherries. (If you’re going to celebrate, celebrate properly.)
  3. Fun Fact: According to the first sundae story, customer George Hallauer ordered an ice cream soda on a Sunday. Ordinances at the time prohibited selling ice cream sodas on the Sabbath. So 18‑year‑old Ed Berners improvised: ice cream in a dish, chocolate syrup on top, no soda. He named it a “Sundae” in honor of the day. And just like that, dessert history was made.

Finally, wrap up your day by celebrating the Cowboy — that hardworking symbol of the American West. The world would be a better place if we all followed the Cowboy Code.

The Cowboy Code

Your Word is Your Bond A handshake and a promise carry more weight than any written contract.

Live Each Day with Courage Face hardships head‑on and never quit.

Take Pride in Your Work Whatever you do, do it well and finish what you start.

Protect the Vulnerable and Weak Be gentle with children, the elderly, and animals.

Never Take Unfair Advantage of Someone A cowboy never strikes a smaller man or shoots first.

Respect Others Never touch another person’s horse or tack without permission.

These are a few of my favorite things. So glad to have a day to celecrate them all. 

 

Do Cats Really Need a $900 bathroom?

Three cats interact with a Litter‑Robot automated litter box, with one cat sitting inside the $900 self‑cleaning unit and two others standing nearby in a modern home. Great example of how multi‑cat households use high‑end automatic litter boxes.

Litter Robots and other Automated  Kitty Litters

Do the cats really need a $900 bathroom? Probably not. But after looking at what these robo‑cans can do — and what I’m spending every month on disposable boxes — I’m starting to think the question might actually be: does the hooman need one?  And lets face it, not every automated litter box is $900. That’s just the top of the line. The less expensive models start at around $200.

They’ve Come a Long Way, Baby

It’s been more than 20 years since one of my kitties used an automated litter box. Back then, the “fancy” version was basically a plastic tray with a rake, a timer, and a little box to collect the dirty litter. It made noise, it jammed, and it was about as subtle as a blender.

Fast‑forward to today and you’d hardly recognize the new generation. We’ve gone from clunky rectangles to sleek circular robo‑cans that look like they’re preparing for re‑entry. They’re quieter, more efficient, and definitely more dramatic.

But instead of listening to me ramble, let’s let our furry consultants — Banner and Balboa — chime in on the real‑world pros and cons. Can these high‑tech contraptions actually make life easier for the hoomans?

Let’s hear what the boys have to say.

Banner and Balboa Review the Robo‑Cans

Banner’s Take

“Look, I’m a reasonable guy. I don’t mind a little technology as long as it doesn’t beep at me. Automated litter boxes have their perks — they keep things tidy, they scoop themselves, and they mean my hooman isn’t hovering around with a plastic shovel like she’s panning for gold. Oreo the cat uses one. Abram Engle’s cats use one. Clearly, some felines are living the high‑tech dream.”

Banner’s Pros:

  • The box stays cleaner (fewer surprises for the hooman)
  • No waiting for someone to remember it’s cleaning day
  • Great for multi‑cat households
  • Cuts down on odor (Banner insists this is Balboa’s fault, not his)

Banner’s Cons:

  • Some models make suspicious noises
  • Mid‑cycle rumbling can interrupt a peaceful bathroom moment
  • If the hooman forgets to empty the waste drawer, the whole system gets cranky
  • Expensive — Banner says the money should go toward treats

Balboa’s Take

“I don’t trust anything that moves without me telling it to. I’m a simple man. I dig, I cover, I leave. But I will admit — the automated box does keep my paws cleaner. And I like a fresh surface every time. Still, I’m watching it. Closely.”

Balboa’s Pros:

  • Fresh litter every visit
  • Less tracking around the house
  • No hooman hovering with judgmental eyes
  • Great for cats who appreciate cleanliness (Balboa says this is him, obviously)

 

Balboa’s Cons:

  • The machine occasionally hums like it’s plotting
  • Some units are too small for “majestic gentlemen of substance”
  • If the sensors fail, it becomes a very expensive sandbox
  • Balboa believes anything with a motor is “up to something”

So… What’s With the App?

The last time I used an automated litter box, there was no app — just a timer and a prayer. Today’s robo‑cans are basically little computers with litter inside, and the app is a big part of how they work.

Here’s what the app actually does (and why you might care):

1. Tracks your cat’s bathroom habits

The box can tell:

  • how often each cat goes
  • how long they stay
  • if someone is suddenly going more or less
  • if a cat hasn’t used the box in hours (a medical red flag)

For multi‑cat households, this is huge. Banner and Balboa would basically have their own bathroom analytics.

2. Alerts you when the waste drawer is full

No more guessing. The app politely pings you:

  • “Drawer full.”
  • “Litter low.”
  • “Sensor blocked because someone kicked litter into the corner again.”

3. Lets you control the cleaning cycle

You can:

  • start a cleaning cycle
  • pause it
  • adjust the wait time after a cat leaves
  • turn off the machine at night

Great for nervous cats (Balboa) who don’t want the box coming alive mid‑pee.

4. Helps diagnose problems

If something jams, the app tells you:

  • what jammed
  • how to fix it
  • whether the sensor is dirty
  • whether the motor is struggling

5. Multi‑cat identification

Some models can tell which cat used the box based on:

  • weight
  • timing
  • pattern

This is how Oreo’s hooman and Abram Engle keep track of their cats’ health.

6. Remote monitoring

If you’re away for the day, you can check:

  • is the box working
  • is the drawer full
  • did the cats use it normally

Peace of mind for anxious hoomans.

Where I Stand on MeoWant (For Now)

I originally joined MeoWant’s affiliate program because their branding is gorgeous and their blog posts are genuinely helpful. But after digging deeper into real‑world feedback, I’m not quite ready to promote their litter box. So far, the only reviews I can find are on Reddit — and Reddit tends to skew negative on everything, so it’s hard to get a clear picture.

Since we haven’t had the opportunity to try MeoWant ourselves, I’m putting this partnership on pause for now. I only recommend products I trust, and I want more solid information before I give it my stamp of approval.

In the meantime, you can check them out for yourself here. If you decide to give them a try, I’d genuinely love to hear about your experience.

So… Is an Automated Litter Box Worth It?

For us, the jury’s still out — but the idea gets a solid thumbs‑up. I spend about $90 a month on Kitty Poo Club for three boxes and litter. At that rate, an automated litter box would basically pay for itself in about three months, and the ongoing supplies (litter + the occasional filter or liner) couldn’t possibly add up to the same $90 monthly cost. Even if the boys decide the robo‑can is “plotting,” the math is hard to ignore. Cleaner paws, fewer odors, less scooping, and long‑term savings? That’s at least worth keeping on the table… or in this case, in the bathroom.

Final Thought

If the future of cat bathrooms is robotic, Banner and Balboa say they’re willing to adapt… as long as the robot remembers who actually runs this house.

This post contains an affiliate link to MeoWant. If you make a purchase through that link, the Dusty Roads team (with enthusiastic supervision from Banner and Balboa) may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Your support helps keep the blog — and the cats — happily exploring new things.

My First Glimpse of Everest

Snow‑covered summit of Mount Everest under a clear blue sky, with wind blowing a small plume of snow from the peak.

Through Josh Gates’ Eyes: My Window Into the Himalayan Kingdoms

I’ve never been to Nepal or Bhutan or the high Himalayas. I’ve never stood in the thin air at Everest Base Camp or walked the ancient paths of the Mustang Range. But I have visited those places in the only way I can right now — through the shows and storytellers who brought them into my living room.

Before Josh Gates ever took me into the deep forests of Bhutan, I had already spent time in the Everest region thanks to another series: Everest Air.

Everest Air: The Rescue Pilots of the Khumbu

Everest Air followed high‑altitude rescue pilots who fly emergency missions around Everest Base Camp. These were real people doing real rescues in some of the most dangerous airspace on Earth. It wasn’t just TV drama; those pilots are still out there today, flying evacuations for trekkers and climbers who run into trouble in the thin air.

That show gave me my first glimpse of the Khumbu, Base Camp, and the sheer scale of the Himalayas. It made the region feel raw, dangerous, and astonishingly alive.

Josh Gates and the Hunt for the Yeti

Then came Josh Gates.

His multi‑episode arc Expedition Unknown: Hunt for the Yeti remains one of his most atmospheric adventures. He traveled through Nepal, trekked in the shadow of Everest, crossed into Bhutan, and explored remote corners of the Himalayan Kingdoms. His mix of curiosity, humor, and respect made the whole region feel almost mythical.

Casey Anderson in Bhutan

Josh didn’t make that journey alone. In Bhutan, he was joined by naturalist Casey Anderson — the Montana bear expert. His calm, grounded presence added a different layer to the story. Together they wandered through high forests, monasteries, and valleys where Yeti stories aren’t campfire tales. They’re cultural history.

Casey’s scientific perspective balanced Josh’s explorer energy. The two of them made Bhutan feel like a place where mystery and biology meet.

The Himalayan Kingdoms Through a Camera Lens

Those shows became my first real window into the Himalayas. They helped me understand how enormous, spiritual, and culturally rich that region is. Josh made it feel like a place where adventure and reverence live side by side. Every mountain seemed to hold a story, and every valley carried a legend.

Between Everest Air and Hunt for the Yeti, I felt like I had traveled through Nepal, Bhutan, Mustang, and the Roof of the World without ever leaving my couch.

A Like From Nepal

So when Adventure Trail Nepal liked my little blog post this week, it didn’t feel random. It felt like a tiny thread connecting me back to all those moments I spent watching Josh Gates explore the Himalayan Kingdoms.

A like from Nepal wasn’t just a click. It was a reminder of how deeply those stories stayed with me.

Feeling a Little Closer to the Roof of the World

I may never trek to Everest Base Camp or wander through Bhutan’s monasteries. But thanks to Josh Gates, Casey Anderson, Everest Air, and a single like from Nepal, the Himalayan Kingdoms feel a little closer today.