Halloween Pet Costumes

 

🎃 Pet Costumes for Halloween

We regret to announce that Welcoming Haven will not be offering pet costumes for Halloween this year. Despite our best efforts, we were unable to secure reasonable shipping rates from our suppliers. At Welcoming Haven, we’re committed to providing quality products at fair prices—and in this case, we couldn’t meet that standard.

But don’t worry! There are still plenty of adorable options out there.

🛍️ Amazon has a wide selection of pet costumes—from spooky to silly, cozy to creative. You can explore their collection and order directly here.

These are just a few samples available through Amazon.

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Happy Halloween

 

Cats, Feral and Global

Cats, Feral and Global: A Day to Celebrate Our Whiskered Wanderers
October 16

What a day! When I checked my calendar, I found a whole lineup of observances: National Feral Cat Day, Global Cat Day, National Boss’s Day, World Allergy Awareness Day, and Get Smart About Credit Day—just to name a few.

The choice was easy for me. I’m a cat person through and through, as Banner and Balboa will gladly confirm.

Banner & Balboa

I’m retired and self-employed now, running my online store Welcoming Haven, so there’s no boss to celebrate.

World Allergy Awareness Day? With its runny noses, wheezy breaths, and itchy red eyes, it can take a back seat to my kitties—though I’ll admit, cats are one of nature’s most common allergens. And as for Get Smart About Credit Day… well, that’s a bit like weight loss. I know what to do, I know what should be done, but I don’t always follow my own advice.

So let’s stick to cats.


Feral Cats I’ve Known and Loved

Years ago, I cared for a feral cat colony at the apartment complex where I lived. People would move out and leave their pets behind. Not all were spayed or neutered, and before long, a colony formed from these abandoned animals. It broke my heart. These cats didn’t understand why they were suddenly on the streets, but they quickly learned to be wary of humans. That first generation wasn’t truly feral—but their kittens were.

Each new litter grew more skittish and shy. Then one day, I spotted a neighbor’s child holding a tiny ball of fluff. Long story short: I rescued that little creature, and Rocky came into my life. He was my beloved companion for 19 years.

Rocky

The best rescue I’ve ever done.

This is love- Rocky


Global Cat Day

Global Cat Day takes National Feral Cat Day one step further. It reminds us that no matter where we live, we can empower people to defend and protect cats—feral, stray, or otherwise.

In the U.S., we have the famous polydactyl cats of Hemingway’s House in Key West.

Hemingway Cats

 

In Japan, there are entire cat islands like Tashirojima and Aoshima.

Cats of Aoshima

Rome is home to an estimated 120,000 cats, many living in colonies legally protected by a 1991 law. And of course, ancient Egyptians worshiped cats as divine beings.

Clearly, cats have left their paw prints all over the world.


Wrapping Up

They say dogs are man’s best friend, but I’d argue that cats are tied for first place. Even feral cats—those too wary for cuddles or lap time—deserve love, care, and respect.

If you have a feral colony near you, consider working with a local vet to set up a TNR (Trap-Neuter-Return) program. True ferals may never become house pets, but they can live healthy, peaceful lives—especially when they’re not trying to repopulate the world.

Want to learn more about TNR programs? Click here to explore resources and get involved.   Alley Cat Allies, Cat Man Chris 

 

House Calls & Cat Quirks

 

Banner & Balboa’s Annual Check-Up: House Calls & Cat Quirks

Every fall, our home transforms into a mini veterinary clinic—complete with treats, towels, and a touch of drama. Ross Veterinary House Calls, our trusted mobile vet, arrives with calm expertise and a gentle touch, making wellness visits a breeze (well, mostly).

Banner: The Brave Bag Boss

Banner, ever the confident explorer, greets the vet with curiosity and a flick of his tail. He hops onto the scale like it’s a stage, gets his shots without a flinch, and even tolerates the nail clippers like a seasoned pro. Once the exam wraps up, he dives into his favorite game: “cat bag”—a spirited romp through the vet’s carrier bag, as if to say, “I conquered this quest!”

Balboa on drugs

Balboa: The Fraidy Cat with Flair

Balboa, on the other hand, prefers a more theatrical approach. Our sweet, sensitive boy needs a little help to face the vet—specifically, a calming medication to ease his nerves. Once he relaxes, the vet conducts the exam smoothly, though Balboa keeps a wary eye on the nail clippers. His bravery shines through in quiet moments: a soft purr, a slow blink, a gentle lean into the vet’s hand.

Nails, Needles, and Not-So-Normal Playtime

Both cats get their nails trimmed—Banner with stoic patience, Balboa with a sleepy sigh. The shots are quick, the check-up thorough, and the post-exam cuddles are plentiful. It’s a ritual that blends health with heart, and thanks to Ross Veterinary House Calls, it all happens in the comfort of home.

In the End

Banner and Balboa both sailed through their exams with flying colors. Banner wanted to roll around and nap on the scale so it took a couple of tries to pin down his weight. Still hanging steady at 17.04 lbs. He’s a big boy!

Balboa indulged in his drama even with  a dose of meds but bounced back quickly. His weight came in at 12.05 lbs. A little chunky for his build but not too bad. Let’s just say he’s a “healthy boy”.

They are all set for another year and always nice to see our mobile vet.

 

 

Tentacled and Terrific

 

A Day Late, But Still Tentacled and Terrific

While hunting for today’s blog inspiration, I stumbled upon World Octopus Day. Technically, it was yesterday—but I’ve never let a calendar dictate my curiosity. And let’s be honest, octopuses (yes, that’s the correct plural!) are far too fascinating to be confined to a single day.

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My Wild Encounter

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I’ve seen plenty of octopuses in aquariums—usually curled into a corner, looking more like a forgotten sock than a sea creature. But everything changed the day I met one in the wild. I was snorkeling off Maui, surrounded by fellow swimmers gushing over a sea turtle I somehow missed. My attention, however, was captured by a tiny, energetic octopus darting through the reef. Unlike its aquarium cousins, this one was a flurry of motion and mystery. I’ll take that little cephalopod over a turtle any day.

Brains Beyond the Head

Octopus intelligence isn’t just impressive—it’s radically different from our own. Instead of relying on a single brain, these creatures distribute their neurons across their bodies. In fact, two-thirds of their roughly 500 million neurons are located in their arms, allowing each limb to operate semi-independently.

Recent studies show that each arm contains a segmented nerve cord, with clusters of neurons that can control movement, react to stimuli, and even “taste” the environment through specialized suckers. This decentralized system lets octopuses respond quickly and precisely to their surroundings—whether they’re exploring a crevice or escaping a predator. It’s a neural architecture so unique that scientists are studying it to inspire advances in soft robotics and artificial intelligence.

A Glimmer of Self-Awareness

And if that wasn’t enough, octopuses may also possess a sense of self. In a groundbreaking experiment, researchers used a version of the “rubber hand illusion”—a test that tricks the brain into adopting a fake limb as its own. When scientists stroked a hidden real arm and a visible fake arm simultaneously, octopuses reacted defensively when the fake was pinched, as if their own body had been harmed.

This response suggests that octopuses can integrate visual and tactile information to form a mental image of their bodies—a trait once thought exclusive to mammals. It’s a hint that these alien-like animals might experience a form of body ownership, nudging them closer to our understanding of consciousness.

Final Thoughts from the Reef

Octopuses are more than eight-armed enigmas—they’re storytellers of the sea, weaving intelligence, adaptability, and mystery into every ripple. My brief encounter off Maui reminded me that wonder often hides in the smallest corners of nature. Whether tucked into a reef or curled in an aquarium tank, these creatures invite us to rethink what it means to be aware, alive, and astonishingly complex.

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October – Black Cat Awareness Month

🖤 Celebrating Balboa: Black Cat Awareness Month

October isn’t just for pumpkins and spooky tales—it’s also Black Cat Awareness Month, a time to shine a light on the sleek, mysterious felines who’ve long been misunderstood. And who better to represent this cause than Balboa, the regal, mischievous heartthrob of Around Dusty Roads?

Balboa isn’t just a cat—he’s a shadow dancer, a sunbeam chaser, and a purring poet in fur. Yet despite their charm, black cats like Balboa often face unfair odds in shelters due to centuries-old superstitions.

🐾 Myths, Misconceptions, and Missed Connections

From medieval Europe to modern pop culture, black cats have been tangled in tales of witchcraft and bad luck. Some still believe that a black cat crossing your path is a sign of doom. But as Groucho Marx quipped, “A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere.” Balboa would add—with a flick of his tail—that it’s probably toward a sunlit nap or a snack.

 

 

These outdated beliefs have real consequences. Studies show black cats are less likely to be adopted than their lighter-colored counterparts. Their features can be harder to photograph, and they’re often overlooked in crowded shelters. It’s a heartbreaking irony: the very traits that make them elegant and enigmatic are the ones that keep them waiting for homes.

🐈‍⬛ Balboa Breaks the Spell

Balboa’s story is a reminder that black cats are anything but unlucky. He’s a daily dose of joy, a midnight-colored muse who inspires blog posts, product spotlights, and cozy evenings. His antics—whether chasing shadows or curling up beside a book—prove that love, not superstition, should guide our choices.

A Balboa Blep- photo credit Deb Neumann

This October, let’s rewrite the narrative. Share stories of your black cats, support shelters, and consider adopting a feline like Balboa. Because behind every black coat is a heart full of magic.

photo credit Deb Neumann